Every one will have a past, that is a fact which no human can change. But there is a fact that some humans are haunted with their pasts. They are bothered in the worst of the times with their pasts, so that their fun is lost. Making all the other friends sad, not allowing them to have real fun, while u r in a depressed mode. Most of the time...we just feel sympathatic abt them, and cant help, as they just say..."nothing's wrong". Rare times we just feel irritated.
It turns out to a nice ending, if u r told whats wrong with them. Perhaps u cant help them. But actually listening to them is a big help...i think. He/she will also feel quite at ease. Maybe lean on ur shoulder, or show his/her emotions in another way. That is if u r told abt the past, which was bothering him/her. Then u will also feel at ease. Maybe u will also think of a lil abt ur own past, and perhaps share it with him/her.
Every one will have a past, and there is no specific time for u to think of it, to be remembered abt it....[thats what i think] Let it be a party, a dinner in a resort, an office trip or any thing. There is nothing wrong abt it, but i think it is wise to share it with sumone whom u trust. Just dont keep it in only ur head.
Well, there are sweet memories of the past too, hehe. But i dont think ne one is facing troubles with them...right? :p
Time to go...hope to meet u soon. Just dont bother abt ur sad pasts on ur own, share it and bear it.
PS: This is written with inspirations from a girl who faced a similar problem. I would like to thank her for sharing her feelings with me. Thanks......^_^
7 comments:
Past dho..eiy ennu vaa ehchakee! =D
sooo..dhen alhugandu ves balaanan share ekey kiyaa ehcheh kureveythoa..but sumtimes we just dun wanna disturb others dho =)
sometimes the past is all jumbled up looks like a fruitcocktail...wouldnt be easy to dump it on someone.
But keeping it like that wont do good either...I agree, the best way is to share.
Share a lot and live a lot!
hehe maazee dho .. maazee akee hama musthagubal ge moonu balaa loa gandu! :P
shweet .. kommes kommes freeku kahala meehakah kiyaa nudheythi!! esorah nulaahiku ithubaaru kohffa anhenkujjeh vaahaka '' past'' kiyaa dhineethee evaahaka ves e othee blog ga liyefa !Kkekekeke
u changed ure colour! yayy.. i like it now..
plus..
its better to remember the happy moments of the past.. but u dont have to forget the sad parts.. sharing is good too :S
im just writing stuff coz i wanted to write about the colout channngee.. so.. what i said later doesnt matter actually.. coz it doesnt make much sense :S
:D
the past will fade..the future is to be made ;) hehhe (not my quote)
anyways nice post
thanks all ^_^
yea..konme meehegge ves past ehh onnaane..eyga hunnaane bad things and good things...but we really cant change it...we all wish we could change it but we cant..so the best way to live is to try and forget the bad things in it and live with the good things and if u ever did bad...not to repeat the mistakes...goodluck for the future everyone...ur past can suck...but lets not let our future suck too..a very touching post FUREEKU
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